It's about time to review some notes from the Biblical Counseling Conference we went to last month.
I'm starting out with some notes from a seminar entitled "Self-Counsel," in which we were reminded by the speaker,
Kevin Carson, that we are to be examining our hearts & lives daily with the penentrating light of God's Word. Naturally, we drift away from Christ-like character, convictions, & conduct. In order that we might live godly, we need daily reminders from those around us -- we must "...exhort one another daily, while it is called 'Today,' lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin." (Heb. 3:13)
Until Christ comes, we are to purify ourselves!
Beloved, now we are children of God;
and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be,
but we know that when He is revealed,
we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.
And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself,
just as He is pure."
1 John 3:2,3Here are some helpful practical steps:
1. Choose a problem to deal with:_____________
2. Think about your reasons for choosing to deal with this particular problem in your life right now.
3. To determine your understanding of the problem biblically,
find 3 or more passages that deal with the problem, as well as 3 or more passages that deal with the solution. ("Don't forget GRACE!") (Begin memorizing at least one of these!)
4. What would meaningful headway in this problem area look like?
(Be very specific & concrete.)
5. Be accountable to at least 3 people, who will faithfully ask you questions. (Give honest answers to them!)
6. Keep a journal to track your progress, noting helpful passages, failures & reasons for setbacks, ways to change, etc.
Some searching questions were asked: "What does God want to change in your life? Where is God working! What are you DOING about it?" (THIS is when change actually starts to take place, for until you correct it, you have not changed!)
And here's an encouraging reminder from Paul Tripp another night, speaking on Romans 7. Though our sin is a law, a war, & a prison -- "Who will rescue me? ... I thank God — through Jesus Christ our Lord!" (Romans 7:24-25) --
there's hope! Christ has come, and He has purchased our redemption. We need the rescuing grace of the Messiah! He broke the power of sin. He was willing to suffer and die, that we can know radical transformation of life. In Christ there is hope. Praise Him!